THE HIGH SCHOOL BLOG

The High School Guidance Counselor

The 9th grade should be a student’s first exposure to guidance counselors. Sadly, many of my clients think the term “guidance counselor” should be considered an oxymoron! I, however, do not share their view.

The high school guidance counselor’s time grows shorter every year, and their areas of expertise are usually limited to career planning and college selection. However, some states have advanced guidance programs such as the BRACE Program (Broward Advisors For Continuing Education) in Broward County, Florida, which has created a “super” guidance counselor; one with advanced training in college preparation giving them far more knowledge and expertise in the admissions process than their counterparts.

However, even they unfortunately, lack the necessary financial expertise that could save families thousands of dollars in the College Funding Process. This less than perfect situation, caused by circumstances beyond the control of guidance counselors, exempts them from any blame. They are not trained to be financial experts and cannot be expected to perform as such. However, to their credit, they are of enormous help in many other areas.

Students will need guidance counselors to write outstanding LOR’s to the colleges they will be applying to. Students are advised to make every effort to get on their good side from the very beginning of the high school years. A birthday, anniversary, Easter or Christmas card can go a long way.

No, I’m not suggesting that you bribe them. It’s just that with all the overcrowding so prevalent in high schools these days, students may need to light a fire under them just to be remembered. So, don’t hesitate to suck up to them (especially in the 11th and 12th grades), because an outstanding LOR from your guidance counselor to your favorite college may just tip the scales and get you accepted.

Note: Writing LOR’s is part of the guidance counselor’s job description, and, although one could argue that they are not paid nearly enough, writing LOR’s is one of the things they are paid to do. Don’t hesitate to go knocking on their doors. The bottom line is, do whatever it takes, but stay in their good graces. Never lose sight of the fact that they are there to help you.

The Private Guidance Counselor

Under normal circumstances, students should not have to go beyond their high school guidance counselor(s) for assistance. However, if the following circumstances exist, by all means seek out the services of a “private” guidance counselor or college advisor.

• In your class of 1000 plus students, the counselors have virtually no time to assist you with your college research.

• The counselor has proven him or herself to be of no help once too often.

• Your special talent needs nurturing, guidance and direction that unfortunately your counselor(s) cannot provide.

• You are a special needs student, and in need of someone special to help you.